You Don't Blast A Heart Open," She

Waiting Time Is Not Wasted Time. Something Is Being Worked Out - In Us, In Someone Else, In The Universe.

The More We Are Focused On Controlling And Changing Others, The More Unmanageable Our Life Becomes. The More We Focus On Living Our Own Life, The More We Have A Life To Live, And The More Manageable Our Life Will Become.

Boundaries Emerge From Deep Within. They Are Connected To Letting Go Of Guilt And Shame, And To Changing Our Beliefs About What We Deserve. As Our Thinking About This Becomes Clearer, So Will Our Boundaries. Boundaries Are Also Connected To A Higher Timing Than Our Own. We’ll Set A Limit When We’re Ready, And Not A Moment Before. So Will Others. There’s Something Magical About Reaching That Point Of Becoming Ready To Set A Limit. We Know We Mean What We Say; Others Take Us Seriously Too. Things Change, Not Because We’re Controlling Others, But Because We’ve Changed.

... I've Learned That I Have Many, Many Soul Mates Here, And They Come To Me At The Right Time And In The Right Place. They Come To Help Me When I'm Lost, And Each Comes With Different Sets Of Lessons For Me -- Usually, Always, My Most Intense Lessons -- The Ones My Soul Came Here To Learn.

Remember To Be Kind. Remember To Be Loving. Remember To Feel All Your Feelings And To Take Care Of Yourself. But Most Of All, Remember To Be Happy.