We Are On A Very Rich Emotional

Wants And Needs Are Closely Connected. And All Our Needs, Even The Ones We're Not Completely Aware Of Yet, Will Be Met. Be Grateful That God Knows More About What We Need Than We Do. Sometimes When We Pray, We Get What We Want. Sometimes We Get What We Need. Accept Both Answers-the Yes's And The Something Else's-with Heartfelt Gratitude. Then Look Around And See What Your Lesson And Gift Is.

Much Of The Time, The Things We Feel Guilty About Are Not Our Issues. Another Person Behaves Inappropriately Or In Some Way Violates Our Boundaries. We Challenge The Behavior, And The Person Gets Angry And Defensive. Then We Feel Guilty.

We Are More Than Our Problems. Even If Our Problem Is Our Own Behavior, The Problem Is Not Who We Are-it's What We Did. It's Okay To Have Problems. It's Okay To Talk About Problems-at Appropriate Times, And With Safe People. It's Okay To Solve Problems. And We're Okay, Even When We Have, Or Someone We Love Has A Problem. We Don't Have To Forfeit Our Personal Power Or Our Self-esteem. We Have Solved Exactly The Problems We've Needed To Solve To Become Who We Are.

Guilt Can Prevent Us From Setting The Boundaries That Would Be In Our Best Interests, And In Other Peoples Best Interests.

We Cannot Change Others, But When We Change Ourselves, We May End Up Changing The World.