We Must Become What We Wish To

If We Do Have Realistic Confidence In Our Mind And Value, If We Feel Secure Within Ourselves, We Tend To Experience The World As Open To Us And To Respond Appropriately To Challenges And Opportunities.

For "i" To Become "we" And Yet Remain "i," Is One Of The Great Challenges Of Marriage.

Taking On Responsibilities That Properly Belong To Someone Else Means Behaving Irresponsibly Toward Yourself. You Need To Know Where You End And Someone Else Begins. You Need To Understand Boundaries. You Need To Know What Is And Is Not Up To You, What Is And Is Not In Your Control, What Is And Is Not Your Responsibility.

The Lies Most Devastating To Our Self-esteem Are Not So Much The Lies We Tell As The Lies We Live.

We Tend To Feel Most Comfortable, "most At Home", With People Whose Self Esteem Level Resembles Our Own.