Relationships Are Monuments Build On Lies

We've Had A Culture War Roaring Away, And The Kinds Of People Who Want To Abuse And Discriminate Against Gay People Who Are Adults Can't Really Lay Their Hands On Us Unless They Want To Be Gay-bashers And Go To Jail. They Abuse Us From Afar And In The Abstract, They Abuse Us With Checkbooks And Ballots, But Their Kids Go To School On Monday Morning. And There's A Gay Kid. And They Feel They Have License To Beat That Gay Kid Up In A Way That I Don't Think They Did When I Was In School. I Think It's Gotten Worse.

You Can’t Pray Away The Gay, But You Can Torture A Conflicted Closet Case To Death.

A Huge Part Of What Animates Homophobia Among Young People Is Paranoia And Fear Of Their Own Capacity To Be Gay Themselves.

One Person Simply Can’t Be All Things To Another Person – Sexually Or Otherwise—and Unmet Needs, Unfulfilled Desire, And Unexplored Possibilities Are Prices We Pay To Be In Ltrs (long –term Relationships). Monogamous, Polyamorous, Femdom, Or Whatever: All Couples People Walk Around Feeling A Little Unfulfilled. (single People, Too). Because No One Gets Everything They Want.

I Get Letters Every Year From Women Who Think Valentine's Day Is An Empty Exercise, But Are Ironically Pretty Exercised When Their Boyfriends Neglect Or Forget It.