Pleasure Is A Sensation. It Is Written

Trust Grows When Babies And Mothers Establish That They Can Find Each Other Again After The Inevitable Moments Of Losing Touch. It Is Not The Goodness Of The Mother Or The Relationship Per Se That Is The Basis For Trust; It Is The Ability Of Mother And Baby Together To Repair The Breaks In Their Relationship That Builds A Safe House For Love.

It All Goes Back, Of Course, To Adam And Eve - A Story Which Shows Among Other Things, That If You Make A Woman Out Of A Man, You Are Bound To Get Into Trouble.

For A Man To Be A Man, Did He Have To Be A Soldier, Or At Least Prepare Himself For War? For A Woman To Be A Woman, Did She Have To Be A Mother, Or At Least Prepare Herself To Raise Children? Soldiers And Mothers Were The Sacrificial Couple, Honored By Statues In The Park, Lauded For Their Willingness To Give Their Lives To Others.

I Find The Question Of Whether Gender Differences Are Biologically Determined Or Socially Constructed To Be Deeply Disturbing.

In The Different Voice Of Women Lies The Truth Of An Ethic Of Care, The Tie Between Relationship And Responsibility, And The Origins Of Aggression In The Failure Of Connection.