Everything About Women Is In Perpetual Crisis.

Trust Grows When Babies And Mothers Establish That They Can Find Each Other Again After The Inevitable Moments Of Losing Touch. It Is Not The Goodness Of The Mother Or The Relationship Per Se That Is The Basis For Trust; It Is The Ability Of Mother And Baby Together To Repair The Breaks In Their Relationship That Builds A Safe House For Love.

I Find The Question Of Whether Gender Differences Are Biologically Determined Or Socially Constructed To Be Deeply Disturbing.

Theory Can Blind Observation.

My Research Suggests That Men And Women May Speak Different Languages That They Assume Are The Same, Using Similar Words To Encode Disparate Experiences Of Self And Social Relationships. Because These Languages Share An Overlapping Moral Vocabulary, They Contain A Propensity For Systematic Mistranslation.

Pleasure Is A Sensation. It Is Written Into Our Bodies; It Is Our Experience Of Delight, Of Joy. ... Pleasure Will Become A Marker, A Compass Pointing To Emotional True North.