Men Have Not Stacked The Decks Against

Men May Be Way Behind In Creating Choices For Themselves, But Have Actually Been Quiet Supporters Of The Choices Women Want For Themselves.

Unless A Woman Asks Men Out (the First Time) As Often As Men Ask Her Out, Then The Assertion 'he Asked Me Out, Therefore He Pays' Is Just A Double Jeopardy Of The Male Role: He Must Not Only Do The Asking, He Must Pay Extra For Risking Extra Rejection.

Self-help Books For Those Who Believe 'you Can Have It All' Often Advise, 'follow Your Bliss And Money Will Follow.' With The Collapse Of The Stock Markets The Reality Of Trade-offs Is More Like, 'when You Follow Your Bliss, It's Money You'll Miss.'

Just As The Depression Left A Generation Of Dads Feeling They Never Had Enough Money, So Father Deprivation Is Leaving A Generation Of Sons And Daughters With Different Psychic Wounds.

Teaching The Child To Treat Boundaries Seriously Teaches The Child To Respect The Rights And Needs Of Others. Thinking Of Another's Needs Creates Empathy.