Sex Role Training Becomes Divorce Training.

Women's Scars And Rituals Involved Beauty (piercing Ears And Noses, Binding Feet, And Wearing Corsets); Men's Involved Protecting Women. In Cultures In Which Physical Strength Is Still The Best Way To Protect Women, As Among The Dodos In Uganda, Each Time A Man Kills A Man, He Is Awarded A Ritual Scar; The More Scars, The More He Is Considered Eligible.

Women's Liberation And The Male Midlife Crisis Were The Same Search--for Personal Fulfillment, Common Values, Mutual Respect, Love. But While Women's Liberation Was Thought Of As Promoting Identity, The Male Midlife Crisis Was Thought Of As An Identity Crisis.

Although A Government Study Found That Men's Health Was Much Worse Than Women's Health Or The Health Of Any Minority Group, Headlines Around The Country Read: 'minorities Face Large Health Care Gap.' They Did Not Say: 'men Face Large Health Care Gap.' Why? Because We Associate The Sacrifice Of Men's Lives With The Saving Of The Rest Of Us, And This Association Leads Us To Carry In Our Unconscious An Incentive Not To Care About Men Living Longer.

The Money Men Make From Their Willingness To Work The Least Desirable Hours Is Not A Sign Of Discrimination Against Women, But A Sign Of The Willingness Of Mostly Married Men To Lose Sleep To Support The Family As Their Wife Loses Sleep To Feed The Child. A Willingness To Do The Uncomfortable Shifts Is One Reason Married Men Earn More Than Twice What Never-married Men Earn. Men's Contribution, Made At Night, Need Not Be Lost In The Dark.

When A Parent Denies A Child Its Parent Time, That Parent Is Denying The Child Its Child Support - Its Psychological Child Support.