Isolation Is Devastating To The Human Psyche.

Much Of The Misbehavior Of Children Is Motivated By The Cravings Of An Empty Love Tank.

We Are Trained To Analyze Problems And Create Solutions. We Forget That Marriage Is A Relationship, Not A Project To Be Completed Or A Problem To Solve.

In A Difficult Marriage, Both Of Us Have Failed Each Other. Even Though One May Be The Major Problem,you Also Have Failed Often In The Way You Have Responded To Them, The Way You Have Treated Them, In The Way You Have Handled Your Hurt And Your Pain.

At The Heart Of Mankind's Existence Is The Desire To Be Intimate And To Be Loved By Another. Marriage Is Designed To Meet That Need For Intimacy And Love.

This Book [desperate Marriages ] Is Really A Book On How To Be A Positive Change Agent In A Very, Very Difficult Marriage. I Am Not Promising That All Individuals Will Be Responsive To The Approach I Take, But I Do Believe That Many Marriages Could Be Saved... Could Be Healed. That Is My Hope.