Grandparents Who Want To Be Truly Helpful

Every Time You Give A Parent A Sense Of Success Or Of Empowerment, You're Offering It To The Baby Indirectly. Because Every Time A Parent Looks At That Baby And Says 'oh, You're So Wonderful,' That Baby Just Bursts With Feeling Good About Themselves.

A Pregnant Woman And Her Spouse Dream Of Three Babies--the Perfect Four-month-old Who Rewards Them With Smiles And Musical Cooing,the Impaired Baby, Who Changes Each Day, And The Mysterious Real Baby Whose Presence Is Beginning To Be Evident In The Motions Of The Fetus.

Grandparents Who Want To Be Truly Helpful Will Do Well To Keep Their Mouths Shut And Their Opinions To Themselves Until These Are Requested.

A Newborn Already Has Nine Months Of Experience When She Is Born.

Attachment To A Baby Is A Long-term Process, Not A Single, Magical Moment. The Opportunity For Bonding At Birth May Be Compared To Falling In Love - Staying In Love Takes Longer And Demands More Work.