Don't Strive For Love, Be It.

Just When I Think I Have Learned The Way To Live, Life Changes.

For Communication To Have Meaning It Must Have A Life. It Must Transcend "you And Me" And Become "us." If I Truly Communicate, I See In You A Life That Is Not Me And Partake Of It. And You See And Partake Of Me. In A Small Way We Then Grow Out Of Our Old Selves And Become Something New. To Have This Kind Of Sharing I Cannot Enter Into A Conversation Clutching Myself. I Must Enter Into It With Loose Boundaries. I Must Give Myself To The Relationship, And Be Willing To Be What Grows Out Of It.

Sometimes When I Generalize, I Am Saying, 'let's Pretend I Am God,' And Of Course The Other Person Argues That Point Endlessly. But I Notice That If The Other Person Takes A Stand For Himself And States His Thoughts As His Thoughts, I Pay More Attention To What He Is Saying And Look Deeper In Myself.

If The Ocean Was Pure Mind And I Was A Wave, I Would Be In Terror If Itried To Distinguish Myself Fromthe Water That Produced Me.what Is A Wave Without Water, And What Is A Mind Without God?

Boredom Is Useful To Me When I Notice It And Think: Oh I'm Bored; There Must Be Something Else I Want To Be Doing... Boredom Acts As An Initiator Of Originality By Pushing Me Into New Activities Or New Thoughts.