Do What Is Important, Not What Is

Leadership Is Communicating People's Worth And Potential So Clearly That They Come To See It Themselves.

If You Are An Effective Manager Of Your Self, Your Discipline Comes From Within; It Is A Function Of Your Independent Will. You Are A Disciple, A Follower, Of Your Own Deep Values And Their Source. And You Have The Will, The Integrity, To Subordinate Your Feelings, Your Impulses, Your Moods To Those Values.

In This Knowledge-worker Age, It's Now Increasingly Tied To Doing Well In School So You Can Get Into Better Grad Schools So You Can Get Better Jobs - So The Pressure To Do Well Is Really High.

Private Victories Precede Public Victories. You Can't Invert That Process Any More Than You Can Harvest A Crop Before You Plant It.

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