At My Age, You Are Naturally Inclined

More And More Couples Are Having This Negotiation Or Discussion, But I'm Still Amazed At The Number Who Aren't And Where The Cultural Norm Sort Of Kicks In And They Just Assume That Mom's Got To Be The One Who Stays Home, Not Dad.

It Wasn't That I Ever Knew I'd Be At The Met For 20 Years, Or 30 Years, Or 40 Years, Or Anything Like That

So, The Total Number Of Hours Spent On The Stuff You Have To Do To Take Care Of A Family, Working And Caring For Stuff At Home, The Total Number Of Hours Is Actually About The Same For Mothers And Fathers.

A Lot Of People Get Impatient With The Pace Of Change.

Its Just That, When The Orchestra Look At Me, I Want Them To See A Completely Involved Person Who Reflects What We Rehearsed, And Whose Function Is To Make It Possible For Them To Do It.