You Know If They Said Kindness Or

I've Done A Number Of Studies With Speed Dating And Match.com And What's Interesting Is That You Know We Still Walk Into A Speed Dating Event, You Know, Thinking About What It Is We're Looking For In A Mate And So You Ask People, Like Women Will Say "i'm Looking For Somebody Who Is Really Kind And Sincere And Smart And Funny."

What Leads Us Astray Is Confusing More Choices With More Control. Because It Is Not Clear That The More Choices You Have The More In Control You Feel. We Have More Choices Than We've Ever Had Before.

We're Born With The Desire, But We Don't Really Know How To Choose. We Don't Know What Our Taste Is, And We Don't Know What We Are Seeing.

What We Share With Animals Is A Desire For Choice. It's A Desire To Have Control Over Our Life And A Desire To Live And Use Choice As A Way In Which We Can Facilitate Our Ability To Live And That Is Something We Really Were Born With.

Then, The Other Thing That Affected My Interest In Choices Growing Up Was The Fact That I Was Going Blind And That Meant That There Were Lots Of Questions That Constantly Kept Arising About How Much Choices I Actually Could Have.