You Can't Heal What You Can't Feel!

To Be Shame-bound Means That Whenever You Feel Any Feeling, Need Or Drive, You Immediately Feel Ashamed. The Dynamic Core Of Your Human Life Is Grounded In Your Feelings, Needs And Drives. When These Are Bound By Shame, You Are Shamed To The Core.

Science Has So Far Been Unable To Tell Us How Self-aware Dogs Are, Much Less Whether They Have Anything Like Our Conscious Thoughts. This Is Not Surprising, Since Neither Scientists Nor Philosophers Can Agree About What The Consciousness Of Humans Consists Of, Let Alone That Of Animals.

All These Feelings Need To Be Felt. We Need To Stomp And Storm; To Sob And Cry; To Perspire And Tremble.

Chronically Dysfunctioning Families Are Also Delusional. Delusion Is Sincere Denial.

The Foundation For Our Self-image Is Grounded In The First Three Years Of Life. It Comes From Our Major Caretaker's Mirroring.