To Others We Are Not Ourselves But

Friendship Is A Difficult, Dangerous Job. It Is Also (though We Rarely Admit It) Extremely Exhausting.

Reticences Are As Revealing As Avowals.

To Others We Are Not Ourselves But A Performer In Their Lives Cast For A Part We Do Not Even Know That We Are Playing.

You Don't Have To Signal A Social Conscience By Looking Like A Frump. Lace Knickers Won't Hasten The Holocaust, You Can Ban The Bomb In A Feather Boa Just As Well As Without, And A Mild Interest In The Length Of Hemlines Doesn't Necessarily Disqualify You From Reading Das Kapital And Agreeing With Every Word.

It Is Harder To Cut Our Gains Than To Cut Our Losses.