The Pattern Often Has Been Entrenched Since

The Getting Out Part [of Advise] May Well Be True. Because If You Have Tried The Tender Love Thing... Typically The Abuser Is Not Going To Change Until They Are Pushed In A Corner.

God Has The Potential Of Touching People's Hearts And Changing Them.

Sometimes When The Spouse Is Really The Culprit, It Is Hard To Admit What You Consider Your Little Failures, But If You Are Going To Have A Better Relationship, You Admitting Your Part In The Dynamics Is A Step In The Road To Healing. Because If They See You Modeling Apology, For Example, And They See You Modeling Love, They May Well Get The Idea That Maybe They Need To Apologize.

In Marriage It Is Never Having My Own Way. It Is Rather Discovering Our Way.

Our Spouse Will Usually Interpret Our Message Based On Our Tone Of Voice, Not The Words We Use.