People Who Really Want To Be In

We Are Attracted To People Who Express The Qualities We Deny Or Repress In Ourselves.

If You Are Trying To Appear Calm And Collected On The Outside When Actually You Are Feeling Upset And Angry, Your Children May Mirror This To You By Becoming Wild And Disruptive. While You Are Trying To Maintain Control, They Pick Up The Chaotic Energy Inside Of You And Reflect It In Their Behavior. If You Express Directly What You Are Feeling, Without Trying To Cover It Up, They Will Usually Calm Down. They Feel Comfortable With The Truth, The Congruity Between Your Feelings And Your Words. This Is True Of Other Relationships As Well.

Not Being In Touch With Your Vulnerability And Not Learning To Own It And Accept It And Be Comfortable With It Leaves You In A Position Where You're Liable To Look At And Judge Other People For Being Vulnerable Because They're Reflecting That Part Of Yourself That You're Not Comfortable With.

There Is A Wise Being Living Inside Of You. It Is Your Intuitive Self. Focus Your Awareness Into A Deep Place In Your Body, A Place Where Your "gut Feelings" Reside. You Can Communicate With It By Silently Talking To It, Making Requests, Or Asking Questions. Then Relax, Don't Think Too Hard With Your Mind, And Be Open To Receiving Answers. They Are Usually Very Simple And Relate To The Present Moment, Not The Past Or The Future, And They Feel Right.

This Or Something Better Now Manifests For Me In Totally Satisfying And Harmonious Ways, For The Highest Good Of All Concerned.