Only When Manhood Is Dead - And

I Have Been Asked, Politely And Not So Politely, Why I Am Myself. This Is An Accounting Any Woman Will Be Called On To Give If She Asserts Her Will.

Can Women Make Use Of Men's Vulnerability Not To Marry But Instead To Destroy Male Power?

For A Mother The Project Of Raising A Boy Is The Most Fulfilling Project She Can Hope For. She Can Watch Him, As A Child, Play The Games She Was Not Allowed To Play; She Can Invest In Him Her Ideas, Aspirations, Ambitions, And Values - Or Whatever She Has Left Of Them; She Can Watch Her Son, Who Came From Her Flesh And Whose Life Was Sustained By Her Work And Devotion, Embody Her In The World. So While The Project Of Raising A Boy Is Fraught With Ambivalence And Leads Inevitably To Bitterness, It Is The Only Project That Allows A Woman To Be - To Be Through Her Son, To Live Through Her Son.

Romantic Love, In Pornography As In Life, Is The Mythic Celebration Of Female Negation. For A Woman, Love Is Defined As Her Willingness To Submit To Her Own Annihilation.... The Proof Of Love Is That She Is Willing To Be Destroyed By The One Whom She Loves, For His Sake. For The Woman, Love Is Always Self-sacrifice, The Sacrifice Of Identity, Will, And Bodily Integrity, In Order To Fulfill And Redeem The Masculinity Of Her Lover.

Men Have Constructed Female Sexuality And In So Doing Have Annihilated The Chance For Sexual Intelligence In Women. Sexual Intelligence Cannot Live In The Shallow, Predestined Sexuality Men Have Counterfeiteed For Women.