One Night I Looked Down And My

I Look Forward To Being Older, When What You Look Like Becomes Less And Less An Issue And What You Are Is The Point.

I Just Love The Fact That That's The Way Life Is. When Something Horrible Happens, You Do Find Yourself Laughing In Weird Places In The Midst Of Grief And Crying In The Supermarket When You See A Cereal That Somebody Used To Eat. There's Just No Way Of Guarding Yourself One Way Or Another. Everybody Grieves Differently, And There's No Right Or Wrong Way.

I Think Where You Get Into Trouble - For Instance The Mixing Of Sex And Violence - Is When You're Telling An Audience That This Horrible Thing Is Enjoyable. The Suffering Just Gets Out Of Hand Too Much. It Becomes Pornographic.

We Need A Witness To Our Lives. There's A Billion People On The Planet... I Mean, What Does Any One Life Really Mean? But In A Marriage, You're Promising To Care About Everything. The Good Things, The Bad Things, The Terrible Things, The Mundane Things... All Of It, All Of The Time, Every Day. You're Saying 'your Life Will Not Go Unnoticed Because I Will Notice It. Your Life Will Not Go Un-witnessed Because I Will Be Your Witness'.

To Each Person, Their Own Way Of Death - With Dignity.