Loving Can Cost A Lot But Not

Perhaps The Old View Of 'me Breadwinner, You Hausfrau' Worked For Our Grandparents, When People Obligingly Popped Off Before Boring Each Other To Death, But It Won't Work Any Longer Because We Are Living Too Long And Divorce Is Needed Today To Do What Death Acomplished More Economically Before.

The Day You Spend Hoping, The Day You Spend Waiting, The Day You Spend In Despair, Is A Day In Your Life As Much As The Tomorrow You Hope For, But Which May Never Come, So Betting Today On Tomorrow Is Always A Bad Bet.

It Can Be Much Harder To Be On The Receiving End Of A Transaction Than To Be The One Who Gets To Give. In Fact, Being Given To Can Mean Being Taken From. There Is A Very Strong Connection Between Pride And Giving, And Those Who Do The Giving Get To Feel That They Are Worthy, While Those Who Are Given To Often Feel That They Are Not.

Anger Is A Passion, So It Makes People Feel Alive And Makes Them Feel They Matter And Are In Charge Of Their Lives. So People Often Need To Renew Their Anger A Long Time After The Cause Of It Has Died, Because It Is A Protection Against Helplessness And Emptiness Just Like Howling In The Night. And It Makes Them Feel Less Vulnerable For A Little While.

The People In Your Life Are Like The Pillars On Your Porch. Sometimes They Hold You Up, And Sometimes They Lean On You. Sometimes It's Enough To Know They Are Standing By.