Leadership Is A Choice, Not A Position

When Two People In A Marriage Are More Concerned About Getting The Golden Eggs, The Benefits, Than They Are In Preserving The Relationship That Makes Them Possible, They Often Become Insensitive And Inconsiderate, Neglecting The Little Kindnesses And Courtesies So Important To A Deep Relationship. They Begin To Use Control Levers To Manipulate Each Other, To Focus On Their Own Needs, To Justify Their Own Position And Look For Evidence To Show The Wrongness Of The Other Person. The Love, The Richness, The Softness And Spontaneity Begin To Deteriorate.

In Effective Personal Leadership, Visualization And Affirmation Techniques Emerge Naturally Out Of A Foundation Of Well Thought Through Purposes And Principles That Become The Center Of A Person's Life.

Whatever Your Present Situation, I Assure You That You Are Not Your Habits. You Can Replace Old Patterns Of Self-defeating Behavior With New Patterns, New Habits Of The Effectiveness, Happiness And Trust-based Relationships.

Trust Is A Powerful Accelerator To Performance And When Trust Goes Up, Speed Also Goes Up While Cost Comes Down - Producing What We Call A Trust Dividend.

Trust Is Equal Parts Character And Competence... You Can Look At Any Leadership Failure, And It's Always A Failure Of One Or The Other.