I'm A Black Woman Every Day, And

Ditch The Dream And Be A Doer.

Ive Learned This Is A Very Long Marriage Doing A Television Show. I Like The People That I Work With To Be People I Enjoy, So You Want To Cast People Who Are As Excited And Enthusiastic As You Are.

There's A Reason I Said I'd Be Happy Alone. It Wasn't 'cause I Thought I'd Be Happy Alone. It Was Because I Thought If I Loved Someone And Then It Fell Apart, I Might Not Make It. It's Easier To Be Alone. Because What If You Learn That You Need Love And Then You Don't Have It? What If You Like It And Lean On It? What If If You Shape Your Life Around It And Then It Falls Apart? Can You Even Survive That Kind Of Pain? Losing Love Is Like Organ Damage. It's Like Dying. The Only Difference Is Death Ends. This, It Could Go On Forever.

Most Of The Women I Saw On Tv Didn't Seem Like People I Actually Knew. They Felt Like Ideas Of What Women Are.

Calling A Show A 'guilty Pleasure' Is Like Saying 'i'm Embarrassed To Say I Watch It But I Can't Stop.' That's Not A Compliment.