If You Have The Feeling Of Choice,

My Child's First Word Was "more," But And It's All About, "i Want." "i'm Going To Tell You What I Want And What I Don't Want." It's About My Desire To Express My Preferences. And That Is Really Innate.

As We Get Older, We Get Better At Choosing In Ways That Will Make Us Happy. We Do A Better Job At Picking Activities That Make Us Happy, And At Spending Time With People Who Make Us Happy. We're Also Better At Letting Things Go.

Life Hands Us A Lot Of Hard Choices, And Other People Can Help Us More Than We Might Realize. We Often Think We Should Make Important Decisions Using Just Our Own Internal Resources. What Are The Pros And Cons? What Does My Gut Tell Me? But Often We Have Friends And Family Who Know Us In Ways We Don't Know Ourselves.

The Great Artist Michelangelo Claimed That His Sculptures Were Already Present In The Stone, And All He Had To Do Was Carve Away Everything Else. Our Understanding Of Identity Is Often Similar: Beneath The Many Layers Of Shoulds And Shouldn’ts That Cover Us, There Lies A Constant, Single, True Self That Is Just Waiting To Be Discovered.

We Make Choices And Are In Turn Made By Them.