If We Don't Change, We Don't Grow.

If Menopause Is The Silent Passage, 'male Menopause' Is The Unspeakable Passage. It Is Fraught With Secrecy, Shame, And Denial. It Is Much More Fundamental Than The Ending Of The Fertile Period Of A Woman's Life, Because It Strikes At The Core Of What It Is To Be A Man.

Children May Need Challenges And High-risk Conditions In Order To Develop The Self-generated Immunity To Trauma That Characterizes Survivors. To Be Tested Is Good. The Challenged Life May Be The Best Therapist.

Would That There Were An Award For People Who Come To Understand The Concept Of Enough. Good Enough. Successful Enough. Thin Enough. Rich Enough. Socially Responsible Enough. When You Have Self-respect, You Have Enough.

Changes Are Not Only Possible And Predictable, But To Deny Them Is To Be An Accomplice To One's Own Unnecessary Vegetation.

Growth Demands A Temporary Surrender Of Security.