If I Can Change, Anybody Can Change.

Trying To Understand The Fear I Had Of Truly Opening My Heart - First, You Have To Be Whole To Do That. The Fears, The Voices In My Mind Saying, "oh, You Don't Want To Do That, You Might Get Hurt, They Might Abandon You - "those Are Ghost Voices From My Mom And Dad.

I Believe People Have Different Ways Of Approaching The Word. For Me, It's Metaphor, Written By People A Long Time After Christ Died And Interpreted By Specific Groups. I Read The Gospels That Aren't Included In The Bible. These Make Me Feel Good About Calling Myself A Christian.

Instead Of Drifting Along Like A Leaf In A River, Understand Who You Are And How You Come Across To People And What Kind Of An Impact You Have On The People Around You And The Community Around You And The World, So That When You Go Out, You Can Feel You Have Made A Positive Difference.

That's What We're All Doing: Paving The Way, Finding The Roles That Have The Complication Instead Of The One That's Always Got It Together Or The Dedicated Housewife Or The Wild One Who Smokes Cigarettes And Sleeps With Anybody.

This Toxic Striving For Perfection Is A Female Thing. How Many Men Obsess About Being Perfect? For Men, Generally, Good Enough Is Good Enough.