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Even Though I'm Over 35, I Feel Like So Much More Of A Leading Lady Than I Did When I Was 30.

And For Me, It Is A Choice. I Understand That For Many People Its Not, But For Me Its A Choice, And You Dont Get To Define My Gayness For Me. A Certain Section Of Our Community Is Very Concerned That It Not Be Seen As A Choice, Because If Its A Choice, Then We Could Opt Out. I Say It Doesnt Matter If We Flew Here Or We Swam Here, It Matters That We Are Here And We Are One Group And Let Us Stop Trying To Make A Litmus Test For Who Is Considered Gay And Who Is Not.

I'm A Very Big Public School Advocate.

In A School Where Everyone Is Famous Or Rich Or Whatever, You Have A Culture, 'what Does Your Dad Do?' 'what Does Your Mom Do?

When Women Got The Vote, They Did Not Redefine Voting. When African-americans Got The Right To Sit At A Lunch Counter Alongside White People, They Did Not Redefine Eating Out. They Were Simply Invited To The Table. That Is All We Want To Do; We Have No Desire To Change Marriage. We Want To Be Entitled To Not Only The Same Privileges But The Same Responsibilities As Straight People.