Embrace The Beautiful Mess That You Are.

The Silly Putty-like Malleability Of The Institution [marriage], In Fact, Is The Only Reason We Still Have The Thing At All. Very Few People... Would Accept Marriage On It's Thirteenth-century Terms. Marriage Survives, In Other Words, Precisely Because It Evolves. (though I Suppose This Would Not Be A Very Persuasive Argument To Those Who Probably Also Don't Believe In Evolution).

I Will Not Harbor Unhealthy Thoughts Anymore.

I Never Promised The Universe That I Would Write Brilliantly; I Only Promised The Universe That I Would Write.

My Life's Accomplishments? Sanity, And You.

I've Never Seen Any Life Transformation That Didn't Begin With The Person In Question Finally Getting Tired Of Their Own Bullshit.